今天，跟父母webcam，又跟新了许多消息。家里的Lulu长大了，从镜头上看到他，肿肿肥肥的。。好想捏一把噢。。第二，亲戚要结婚，一位要嫁给大她八岁的男人，一位却逼不得已，因为有了！
真爱是有的，可是用性去证明就太傻了。要冒险还漏洞，年纪轻轻的就背了一个负担，而且是会长大的负担。女性们要记得，如果一个男人真心爱你，就不会要你干那回事，因为未来总是个未知数。爱一个人，不会剥夺她最珍贵的，或让她往后有遗憾，除非他已准备好要负责。
八月，我们全家将到新山探望我大哥大嫂，二哥跟三哥。最重要的还是看我的侄子与侄女。他们今年应该两岁大了吧。哈哈。然后可以到新加坡去走走。。嘿嘿~
后天还有考试，希望能有聪明智慧不犯糊涂错误，不过可笑的是我还没温习。这些日子都不懂在瞎忙什么，总觉得在做些没意义的事。祈祷今年后能转校或搬到离学校近一点的地方。至少可以认识一些女孩，或能参与一些上帝的事工。。或找一份工来打吧~~
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Love is shown by Work
Saw tiz from an email i received. Its above how married couples should grow and flourish their marriage in the love of God. Read till the end and realised that not many, including me can love like Jesus. The below texts are wad i've summarised.
Words are relatively easy. But love without work is like a body without a soul. We must work at being loving otherwise love will slowly fade away. The work we do will show how much our spouse means to us. Without work it is just lip service. It is just words. It is insincere and it is empty. For love to grow and flourish, we have to put in the effort to:
1. Work
Jesus loves us and He works at it, “we must carry out the work of the One who sent Me; the night will soon be here when no one can work”(John 9:4 NJB)
No couple should deny their spouse the little things of affection, the amenities of love, along the busy and trying days.
2. Accept Differences
“Show your love by being tolerant with one another” (Ephesians 4:2 TEV)
3. Initiate Giving Love
"we love Him because He first loved us.”(1 John 4:19 TEV)
“Do for others what you want them to do for you.” (Matthew 7:12 TEV)
4. Trust
And one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit is “faithfulness” (Galatians 5:22 TEV)
Love “believes all things,” emphasising the necessity of trust in any loving relationship. (1 Corinthians 13:7 NKJV)
5. Give sacrificially
Am I always self-serving? Am I considerate to my spouse’s feelings or am I only sensitive to my own feelings? Jesus acknowledges that it is natural that we all love ourselves very well but He commands us to “Love your neighbour as you love yourselves.” (Matthew 22:39 TEV)
6. Restrain certain actions
God restrains Himself because of His great love for us: “For the sake of My name I shall defer My anger, for the sake of My honour I shall be patient with you, rather than destroy you.” (Isaiah 48:9 NJB)
7. Always seek reconciliation and compromise
“For God loved the world so much that He gave His only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him may not die but have eternal life.” (John 3:16 TEV)
8. Commit Ourselves
It is in the nature of true love to bind itself, to commit itself. St Paul described this quality when he said, “Love suffers long. . . bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.”(1 Corinthians 13:4,7,8 NKJV)
9. Endless Forgiveness
Jesus reminds Peter the number of times he has to forgive his brother, “’Lord, if my brother keeps on sinning against me, how many times do I have to forgive him? Seven times?’ ‘No, not seven times,’ answered Jesus, ‘but seventy times seven’” (Matthew 18:21-22 TEV).
10. Stop keeping scores
“love does not keep a record of wrongs” (1 Corinthians 13:5 TEV). God does not keep a record of our wrongs when we repent. Similarly, we have to do the same.
11. Small acts of Care and Consideration
“Let us be concerned for one another, to help one another, to show love and to do good.”(Hebrew 10:24 TEV)
12. Communicate
“My commandment is this: love one another, just as I love you”(John 15:12 TEV). Jesus also communicates how He wants us to love Him in return: ”If you love Me, you will obey My commandments” (John 14:15 TEV)
13. Anger
Do I get angry if I don’t get my way? Do I have a short fuse?We are the only one who can make ourselves angry. We choose how we respond to the event that upset us. We must choose to take active steps “never let the sun set on our anger or else we will give the devil a foothold.” (Ephesians 4:27 NJB)
14. Mercy
“It (mercy) is twice blest: It blesseth him that gives and him that takes” (Act4: Scene I:184-185).
15. Putting our spouse first
We must also “look out for one another’s interest, not just for your own.” (Philippians 2:4 TEV)
It is extremely important to remember that the limited checklist above is for oneself to grow and improve and NOT as a checklist to use against our spouse. None of us, on our own effort, will have the staying power to stick to the above works. But if we ask the Holy Spirit within us to guide and help us stay the course, we will, in time, come close to achieving the ideal love we all so desired.
Love works only for those who WORK at it and with the help of the Holy Spirit through constant prayers.
Words are relatively easy. But love without work is like a body without a soul. We must work at being loving otherwise love will slowly fade away. The work we do will show how much our spouse means to us. Without work it is just lip service. It is just words. It is insincere and it is empty. For love to grow and flourish, we have to put in the effort to:
1. Work
Jesus loves us and He works at it, “we must carry out the work of the One who sent Me; the night will soon be here when no one can work”(John 9:4 NJB)
No couple should deny their spouse the little things of affection, the amenities of love, along the busy and trying days.
2. Accept Differences
“Show your love by being tolerant with one another” (Ephesians 4:2 TEV)
3. Initiate Giving Love
"we love Him because He first loved us.”(1 John 4:19 TEV)
“Do for others what you want them to do for you.” (Matthew 7:12 TEV)
4. Trust
And one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit is “faithfulness” (Galatians 5:22 TEV)
Love “believes all things,” emphasising the necessity of trust in any loving relationship. (1 Corinthians 13:7 NKJV)
5. Give sacrificially
Am I always self-serving? Am I considerate to my spouse’s feelings or am I only sensitive to my own feelings? Jesus acknowledges that it is natural that we all love ourselves very well but He commands us to “Love your neighbour as you love yourselves.” (Matthew 22:39 TEV)
6. Restrain certain actions
God restrains Himself because of His great love for us: “For the sake of My name I shall defer My anger, for the sake of My honour I shall be patient with you, rather than destroy you.” (Isaiah 48:9 NJB)
7. Always seek reconciliation and compromise
“For God loved the world so much that He gave His only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him may not die but have eternal life.” (John 3:16 TEV)
8. Commit Ourselves
It is in the nature of true love to bind itself, to commit itself. St Paul described this quality when he said, “Love suffers long. . . bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.”(1 Corinthians 13:4,7,8 NKJV)
9. Endless Forgiveness
Jesus reminds Peter the number of times he has to forgive his brother, “’Lord, if my brother keeps on sinning against me, how many times do I have to forgive him? Seven times?’ ‘No, not seven times,’ answered Jesus, ‘but seventy times seven’” (Matthew 18:21-22 TEV).
10. Stop keeping scores
“love does not keep a record of wrongs” (1 Corinthians 13:5 TEV). God does not keep a record of our wrongs when we repent. Similarly, we have to do the same.
11. Small acts of Care and Consideration
“Let us be concerned for one another, to help one another, to show love and to do good.”(Hebrew 10:24 TEV)
12. Communicate
“My commandment is this: love one another, just as I love you”(John 15:12 TEV). Jesus also communicates how He wants us to love Him in return: ”If you love Me, you will obey My commandments” (John 14:15 TEV)
13. Anger
Do I get angry if I don’t get my way? Do I have a short fuse?We are the only one who can make ourselves angry. We choose how we respond to the event that upset us. We must choose to take active steps “never let the sun set on our anger or else we will give the devil a foothold.” (Ephesians 4:27 NJB)
14. Mercy
“It (mercy) is twice blest: It blesseth him that gives and him that takes” (Act4: Scene I:184-185).
15. Putting our spouse first
We must also “look out for one another’s interest, not just for your own.” (Philippians 2:4 TEV)
It is extremely important to remember that the limited checklist above is for oneself to grow and improve and NOT as a checklist to use against our spouse. None of us, on our own effort, will have the staying power to stick to the above works. But if we ask the Holy Spirit within us to guide and help us stay the course, we will, in time, come close to achieving the ideal love we all so desired.
Love works only for those who WORK at it and with the help of the Holy Spirit through constant prayers.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
啊啊啊啊啊
想对天空呐喊：“天啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊啊！！为什么！！！！？？？？
前几天我的赌徒姐姐与她男友在gala输了三百多镑，输得我脸从绿变紫，又由紫变黑，真是五彩缤纷啊~~这意味着这暑假跟他们旅游的计划变得像卫生纸那么薄。。跟旧同学出游的机率缩小了因为一些人还不确定，回去马来西亚又是摆在家腐烂？存了钱却找不到咖去旅游，心里不是滋味唉~~
明天考数学，下礼拜考物理，再下礼又实践考。。希望熬过了这三个礼拜能把功课都做完呗。
还有春呀春，你闹什么脾气，耍什么任性？阿冬稍微冷了些你就迟到了。。你可知道我多么想你。花草树木将为你而绽放，鸟儿将为你高歌，渴望你灿烂的笑容，渴望躲进你温暖的怀抱中！想念你温暖的气息，我爱你！！
前几天我的赌徒姐姐与她男友在gala输了三百多镑，输得我脸从绿变紫，又由紫变黑，真是五彩缤纷啊~~这意味着这暑假跟他们旅游的计划变得像卫生纸那么薄。。跟旧同学出游的机率缩小了因为一些人还不确定，回去马来西亚又是摆在家腐烂？存了钱却找不到咖去旅游，心里不是滋味唉~~
明天考数学，下礼拜考物理，再下礼又实践考。。希望熬过了这三个礼拜能把功课都做完呗。
还有春呀春，你闹什么脾气，耍什么任性？阿冬稍微冷了些你就迟到了。。你可知道我多么想你。花草树木将为你而绽放，鸟儿将为你高歌，渴望你灿烂的笑容，渴望躲进你温暖的怀抱中！想念你温暖的气息，我爱你！！
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Monday, February 22, 2010
天知道
当然，一些事意外地发生了。
意外意外，意料之外。
天知道，我的希望
天知道，我的愿望
天知道，我的盼望
天知道，我的渴望
天知道，我的欲望
天知道，我的失望
天知道，我所望的都不是我的
因此，我从不信上天会赐给我顺遂的人生，我只祈求上天会赐给我坚强与毅力来面对一切的一切
意外意外，意料之外。
天知道，我的希望
天知道，我的愿望
天知道，我的盼望
天知道，我的渴望
天知道，我的欲望
天知道，我的失望
天知道，我所望的都不是我的
因此，我从不信上天会赐给我顺遂的人生，我只祈求上天会赐给我坚强与毅力来面对一切的一切
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