前提就说我最近过得怎样吧。
最近，有一位从sibu来的女同学，比我大三岁，跟我念同一年。老实说，我不是傻子，她为什么老是说翘课了还说谎？前几天的露营，没去就算了还跟我说跟另外一个朋友做assignment.我们不是念同一班的呗？我还有什么功课我自己不了解吗？我讨厌人家说谎，从你的眼神，口气我90%就能判断出。特别是借口跟理由特别多的人。你有了前科，我不会相信你了。不管你是谁，朋友，情人或是亲人。生病第二天，发烧了。在这里要好的朋友却不断的关心与陪伴。感谢那些不断付出真心虽然只是在维持友谊人。好心有好报，上帝必恩赐你们。说了这么久，离题了，真情酒吧，就只说男人与女人之间的关系。
就拿我的例子来说吧。从前我以为只要不断对一个人好，那人一定会喜欢你。对一个人非常好，细心，体贴，对方不一定以相同的方式回报。爱情不是付出多少，回报就多少。可是，无论男女，都可能忘记了，爱情里要考100分，不是当当一方面的付出，而是两个人各自拿出50分来填满那100分。拿相同的逻辑运用在日常生活中，考试要拿100分，所付出的努力是不是非常的痛苦，累，让你流泪甚至绝望？就拿以前的例子，我认真，努力付出了100分，结果喜欢的人毕竟还是离我而去不是吗？记得在美里那段颓废的日子，也有一个认真的男人，陪我颓废。Vincent哥。哈哈。他老是教我该怎么做，这样对不对，那样对不对。他当时已经尝到爱情美丽的果实，在美里交了一个女友，时常两头跑。女友也挺有钱，漂亮的脸蛋，妙曼的身材，毕竟是每个男人梦寐以求的女人。直到我再次回到美里时才知道说他们分了（女的有了新的男友）。当初爱得那么认真，女孩说变就变。后来什么也没得到。。
如果你有看17-11-09的大学生了没-爱情的梦幻你看清了吗？
有外表的男人女人，绝对不会是乖仔。男女的心理是乱枪打鸟，能吃几只是几只。大家都享受暧昧，那种猎艳的feel。钓鱼很有feel，唯一不同的是有些人钓到了鱼，还会看一看是不是条大鱼，之后还会看一看好不好吃。有些人纯粹钓到了，玩玩就放掉了。成熟的男性看的是外表后内心，女人则是金钱后内心。外表对她们说并不是那么重要。说到这点，我就是不成熟的男人吗？靠，被射了一箭。
说回爱情，这道理就像煮东西一样。如果你想要尝到美味，你就会多花点心思。大火，菜好快就焦了。不好。小火，菜就会冷掉，你永远就尝不到。最适合的是中火，放点心思与注意力，细心煎熬，毕竟能煮出一锅好菜。
爱情就好像1+1赌博，1+1=2。这是不变的道理。游戏规则是不让结果等于二，男女手中各自有筹码。只看大家愿意退出多少筹码来赢得这场赌博。有些人不顾一切把所有筹码推出，结果一场空。有些人害怕一场空而不敢推出筹码。结果还是输了。
男人交女朋友是来解忧解闷，希望找个人陪伴。不开心时希望女友说句好话开心开心，开心时希望能与另一伴分享。
女性呢，多数是虚荣心吧。她的男人必须有钱，能买下她所喜欢的东西。
必须好看，这样跟他出街时能得到其他女性朋友羡慕的眼光。
必须贴心，在她需要时随时出现，帮她解困解忧。
必须满足她一切一切的要求。
拿句男人女人里的歌词-女人女人，多希望你是好人。不需要好到哪里去，至少满足我们小小的愿望好吗？还有毕竟男人都是感官的动物。如果你有漂亮的脸蛋，你有妙曼的身材，你就安全了。以上什么都没有，那你内心必须具备温柔，贴心与细心。没有外表可是有内心的女人，男人也许不会放手的。。。
如果您再什么都没有，那您只能自求多福了。。。
Friday, November 20, 2009
Thursday, November 19, 2009
2012
灾难电影，听人家说很不错，所以就自己一个人看了看。
也许是电影看多了吧。生生死死已经感动不了我，人们的情情爱爱，我知道不会发生在我身上，所以没同感身受的感觉。
2012加重了这几个元素。
友情，爱情，亲情，甚至是陌生人与陌生人之间的联系。
人性，其实可以很简单
每个人都有自己想守护的人。
即使用自己的生命去交换，那又何妨呢。
人之将死，其言也‘真’。
在去另一个国度之前，自己的真心，应该让他们知道了；之前的误解，应该要解开了。
然而，遗憾，还是有的。
有好多话，哽咽在喉咙，就要脱口而出之际，
却听到电话另一 头传来尖叫声，然后只剩一阵沉默。
再也听不到那久违却又熟悉，想念的声音。（From LeeSiang's blog)
好多时候 ，在对的时间就得说对的话，一句关怀，一句好听的话可以让一个人开心一整天。不要等没机会时才后悔当初为什么没做到。
一个人的天空很蓝，蓝的有点忧郁...
一个人的时候很自由，自由的有点孤单...
一个人的时候很轻松，轻松的有点无聊...
想念朋友的时候很幸福，幸福的有点难过...
我喜欢生命里只有单纯的盼望，只有一种安定和缓慢的成长...
喜欢岁月漂洗过的颜色，更喜欢和这个看文文的人做一辈子的朋友...
一辈子有多长，我不知道...缘分有多少，没人可以明了...这条路有多远并不重要，就算陪你走不到天涯海角，我却珍惜和你们做朋友的每一秒.
露营回来后生病了。好难受，可是又不想睡觉。哎哎。。
好多功课没做完。。只盼上帝保佑了 =P
也许是电影看多了吧。生生死死已经感动不了我，人们的情情爱爱，我知道不会发生在我身上，所以没同感身受的感觉。
2012加重了这几个元素。
友情，爱情，亲情，甚至是陌生人与陌生人之间的联系。
人性，其实可以很简单
每个人都有自己想守护的人。
即使用自己的生命去交换，那又何妨呢。
人之将死，其言也‘真’。
在去另一个国度之前，自己的真心，应该让他们知道了；之前的误解，应该要解开了。
然而，遗憾，还是有的。
有好多话，哽咽在喉咙，就要脱口而出之际，
却听到电话另一 头传来尖叫声，然后只剩一阵沉默。
再也听不到那久违却又熟悉，想念的声音。（From LeeSiang's blog)
好多时候 ，在对的时间就得说对的话，一句关怀，一句好听的话可以让一个人开心一整天。不要等没机会时才后悔当初为什么没做到。
一个人的天空很蓝，蓝的有点忧郁...
一个人的时候很自由，自由的有点孤单...
一个人的时候很轻松，轻松的有点无聊...
想念朋友的时候很幸福，幸福的有点难过...
我喜欢生命里只有单纯的盼望，只有一种安定和缓慢的成长...
喜欢岁月漂洗过的颜色，更喜欢和这个看文文的人做一辈子的朋友...
一辈子有多长，我不知道...缘分有多少，没人可以明了...这条路有多远并不重要，就算陪你走不到天涯海角，我却珍惜和你们做朋友的每一秒.
露营回来后生病了。好难受，可是又不想睡觉。哎哎。。
好多功课没做完。。只盼上帝保佑了 =P
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Chilly
Three days ago...a friend of my friend passed away in a car accident. Accident, accident, accident, they happen anytime anywhere and anyone could've involved in it. I could recognise the guy who passed away from the photos they posted in facebook. We played basketball together before. I could remember that the last night before I left Miri, I was standing outside Han Lung's house and chit-chatting wif them around 1am. Then, the guy was driving past fast and suddenly hit the brake. The he reverse back fast too and Nash was beside him. Both of them reversed back just to say goodbye. Oh, I was impressed, touched. And he is gone now and forever.God Bless. Nice people always leave us earlier to go to a better place, don't they? I gotta feeling..
Went to a field course at Raven Gill Scout Camp in Commondale two days ago. It was wet, muddy and COLD. We spent most of our times outdoors doing some practical activities. Luckily I brought my Wellington boots. There were sheeps around, and poos absolutely. Just a few steps to the left and I'm in puddle, few steps to the right, in the muddy field. Walk slow or you'll fall with muds all over your body. The wind was strong. Everyone was wrapped in thick coats and boots like a dumpling, except me. Icy wind chill till I felt the pain in my bones.
There was no phone signals around the camp area. And most of the people wanted to make calls. And to get signals, we had to drive 15 minutes up to a hill or walk 30 mins. I don't know the reasons why those people were so eager to make a call outside until I was invited by one of them to take a ride on their car. They drove all the way up. All jumped off the car in excited state when they gt signal. Mr A:" Fuck, she offed her phone." Mr B:"Its ok, just text her." Mr C talking and from the smiley face, know wat's happening la. British people willing to drive 15 mins up a hill for a call. The pakistan, indian and arabic people walked. Well, Love is great isn't it. People knowing it willing to do anything for it.
The sky actually gets dark around 4pm. After dinner, every people squeezed themselve into a small pub few miles away for a drink to warm themselves. Those people were willing to spend 30 pounds per night just to drink. Mayb its their cultural but I'm just impressed to see them keep drinking and chatting for the whole night. Others played pool and darts. I was sitting there having couple of beers watching wat they were doing. After too much driking, one actually took his pants off and showed everyone his butt when we were on the way back. Another Italian girl fall into a trench with torch light in her hand( Coz it was pitch dark and we were safe walking in d dark).The India ppl and arabic ppl laughed hard.LMAO. Interesting. The British ppl were too Geng to set Tents outside with temp about 0 to 2 at nite and wind blowing at average 40km/h . Pei Fu.. But nothing ventured nothing gain right? those people sleeping outside saw Meteor Shower around 12am. Look up into the sky and you'll see stars. Lots of them plus the surrounding of the campsite was pitch dark. Off the torch and you'll find the sky is incredibly awesome. Sibu one is cloudy all the time and you could hardly see stars., Miri, you'll be sucked dry by insects if u stay in dark for more than 2 minutes. Though it was freezing, I stood outside alone watching the stars for about 10 mins. Likey it very much（如果在对的频道你会知道我想干嘛）.. Will do tat more often during spring time.
Well, stay conscious, stay warm, stay alive, stay happy.
I'm alone in UK...
Went to a field course at Raven Gill Scout Camp in Commondale two days ago. It was wet, muddy and COLD. We spent most of our times outdoors doing some practical activities. Luckily I brought my Wellington boots. There were sheeps around, and poos absolutely. Just a few steps to the left and I'm in puddle, few steps to the right, in the muddy field. Walk slow or you'll fall with muds all over your body. The wind was strong. Everyone was wrapped in thick coats and boots like a dumpling, except me. Icy wind chill till I felt the pain in my bones.
There was no phone signals around the camp area. And most of the people wanted to make calls. And to get signals, we had to drive 15 minutes up to a hill or walk 30 mins. I don't know the reasons why those people were so eager to make a call outside until I was invited by one of them to take a ride on their car. They drove all the way up. All jumped off the car in excited state when they gt signal. Mr A:" Fuck, she offed her phone." Mr B:"Its ok, just text her." Mr C talking and from the smiley face, know wat's happening la. British people willing to drive 15 mins up a hill for a call. The pakistan, indian and arabic people walked. Well, Love is great isn't it. People knowing it willing to do anything for it.
The sky actually gets dark around 4pm. After dinner, every people squeezed themselve into a small pub few miles away for a drink to warm themselves. Those people were willing to spend 30 pounds per night just to drink. Mayb its their cultural but I'm just impressed to see them keep drinking and chatting for the whole night. Others played pool and darts. I was sitting there having couple of beers watching wat they were doing. After too much driking, one actually took his pants off and showed everyone his butt when we were on the way back. Another Italian girl fall into a trench with torch light in her hand( Coz it was pitch dark and we were safe walking in d dark).The India ppl and arabic ppl laughed hard.LMAO. Interesting. The British ppl were too Geng to set Tents outside with temp about 0 to 2 at nite and wind blowing at average 40km/h . Pei Fu.. But nothing ventured nothing gain right? those people sleeping outside saw Meteor Shower around 12am. Look up into the sky and you'll see stars. Lots of them plus the surrounding of the campsite was pitch dark. Off the torch and you'll find the sky is incredibly awesome. Sibu one is cloudy all the time and you could hardly see stars., Miri, you'll be sucked dry by insects if u stay in dark for more than 2 minutes. Though it was freezing, I stood outside alone watching the stars for about 10 mins. Likey it very much（如果在对的频道你会知道我想干嘛）.. Will do tat more often during spring time.
Well, stay conscious, stay warm, stay alive, stay happy.
I'm alone in UK...
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